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Here Are The
Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid
Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
By David D'Angelo
MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive
women never seem to be attracted to
"nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female
friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they
were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a
guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL
ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful
ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical
sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it,
you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they
REALLY like... but she's just not interested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE
HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about
you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the
world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with
her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead,
chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.
MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly
think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a
woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who
kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like
you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means
"always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women
actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys
who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
MISTAKE #4: Trying To "Buy" Her Affection With Food And
Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice
dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone
who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a
LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear
message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm
going to try to buy your attention and
affection".
Your good intentions usually come across to women as
over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation.
That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The
Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men
make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are
being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME by men.
An attractive woman is often approached several times
a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per
week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and
sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts
saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all
the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control
themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...
MISTAKE #6: Not "Getting" How Attraction Works For
Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to
ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful woman he INSTANTLY feels
a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly
on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full
years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction
mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average
and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in
men... and they're more attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than
they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and
communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful
sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a beautiful young
woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do
this.
And ANY guy can learn how...
MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is
giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that
attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or
guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a
certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only
interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's
personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like
a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them,
YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because
you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your
body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the
same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see
a hot, sexy young woman.
MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a
woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use
is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them
by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk
all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of
Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at
reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example,
if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows
it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly
HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting
nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and
dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her
out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you
will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to
go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all
the way to the bedroom.
MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER
having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak
or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured
out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact
that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I
was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman
I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can
still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do
whatever it took to learn how to be successful
with women and
dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds
of crazy things, I finally figured it all
out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her
number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've
dated nice, normal,
regular girls as well.
It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer
feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women...
and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet
attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done
seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of
thousands of men all around the world.
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